On Saturday we went to a marriage seminar at church called Stoking The Fire, and it was basically all about sex. The speaker was Patricia Weerakoon, who is a sexologist and a christian. What sort of a term is 'sexologist'? Couldn't they think of something better than sexologist? If you specialise in feet they give you a good, scientific sounding name like Podiatrist, they don't call you a Footologist. Sexologist. I never.
Anyway, the course was really good, and I got a lot out of it, but I gotta say, I found it pretty embarrassing. I didn't realise my sensibilities were quite so delicate. There are some words you don't really ever want to hear your minister say. Of course there were no inconspicuous seats left so we had to sit right up the very front, where everybody could see me squirming, and see my ears turning redder and redder. I'm all for frank discussion, as long as I can be somewhere else at the time, maybe listening over an intercom from a secret location.
6 comments:
hahaha! Know what you mean! :)
:). Yes those of us who were exempt from that one could only imagine. But I'm with you that "sexologist" sounds decidedly unconvincing (and not a little suspicious).
LOL...it's good to hear what really went on at the 'secret sex business'. Keep the funny stories coming!
utterly ridiculous. The church can't even get its main message right, maybe if they focused on the truth "all these things will be added unto you."
Stupid. Pragmatism is one of the most deluding influences in the church today.
Jesus saved me so I can have better sex? Come on!
Hi, terriergal--I'm not sure what exactly you think is ridiculous? The seminar was not saying Jesus saved us so we can have better sex, but was tackling an area of life that Christians prbably don't talk enough about in a constructive way. It was just going back to the bible and going through what God says about it, and how He set it out in creation. I made light of it in my post, but it was actually a really good seminar.
Hello Ben
I am glad yu found the seminar useful. You have described the objectives exactly.
Thank you
Patricia
PS - I'll call myself something else next time I visit the Church!
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